LETTERS TO THE EDITOR

To the Editor,

In light of the press release this week by the police department about a sexual assault on island, I'd like to take the opportunity to share some general information. Sexual assault and rape are among the most under-reported crimes and the vast majority are perpetrated by someone known to the victim. When this type of crime is made public, it can have different effects on different people and the community. Often the victim is scrutinized and "blamed." It is natural to want to dissect the information in an effort to make ourselves feel more safe or less at risk; rumors abound. I would encourage us all to be respectful in our discussions and to mindful of the privacy of the victim and his or her family. This is certainly a time to take measures to enhance our own sense of safety.

We often think that Nantucket is different, safer, than other communities. While this may be true, it does not mean we are not at risk for the crimes that occur in other communities. I encourage you to follow the suggestions made by the police regarding safety measures around your home. In addition, you may want to consider the following:

• Use the buddy system, especially after dark.

• Always be aware of your surroundings and listen to your instincts

• If you drink, remember to never take a drink from someone you don't know; don't leave your drink unattended; and make your own drink or watch your drink being made whenever possible. Date rape drugs are prevalent on Nantucket, just as in other places.

• If you have been assaulted, or you think you may have been assaulted, go to the hospital or call A Safe Place for free, confidential

support.

A Safe Place will be holding a weekly facilitated drop-in group for survivors of sexual assault throughout the summer. Please call our office (508-228- 0561) for the time and location. Our staff is also available during the day and via our 24-hour hotline (508-228-2111) to assist with a personal safety plan or supportive counseling if you are experiencing a high level of anxiety due to this reported assault.

Finally, we need to remember that it is the perpetrator who is responsible for the sexual assault or rape. Our community should be safe for everyone and we all have a stake in making Nantucket a place that does not tolerate abusive behavior of any kind. We can intervene if we see it occurring or call the police; we can refrain from abusive behavior, language or jokes and expect the same from our friends; and we can offer non-judgmental help and support to friends or family who have experienced abuse. If you have any questions about how you can help, please call our office.

Sincerely,

Kat Robinson Grieder

Executive Director

Correction: In February 2008, Nantucket Shuttle was awarded a noise abatement trophy.